Monday, December 22, 2014

Opening the Unopened Present



Has someone ever given you a present you never opened?

Maybe you took it and put it under your arm, but because the box didn't feel heavy enough or the wrapping paper didn't look pretty enough, you sat it down with intentions to open it later.  But maybe you never actually opened it; maybe you got distracted and forgot.  It's like you took the present that was given to you, but you never truly received what it had to offer.   

Kids are different in that way.  Kids don't save their presents for later.  They don't get distracted or forget.  We've all seen this unfold; the wrapping paper gets shredded, the box is destroyed, and that red ribbon that grandma keeps yelling for them to save gets annihilated most of all.  Kids prove to us that they have a special knack for receiving presents.  And when they see what it is for the first time–
Pure.  Joy.

Do you ever get jealous about the way kids open presents? 
Do you ever wish for that kind of joy?

But let’s be realistic, you have more to think about than answering such silly questions.  Only kids are supposed to open presents like that, right?  And maybe you pay more attention to your real responsibilities and the things in your life that you think are more relevant.  Instead, maybe you talk about how you're going to cut back on gift-giving this year.  Or maybe your hope is to survive the routine of the holidays.  Like, you hold your breath, close your eyes, and ask somebody to wake you up when it’s all over.  Or perhaps you just go with the flow and try to not get too irritated by the moments, the people, the food, the music, or the white elephant presents.

In your mind, maybe Christmas isn’t what it used to be. 
You’re not a kid anymore and it affect the way you celebrate Christmas.
Something changed about the holiday season.   
The Christmas lights don’t have the magic they used to have.
And it seems Christmas will never be like it used to be…

That is,
until you realize
you never received it;
you never opened
that one present
you were given.

That present, the original present, the present of presents,
the present all the other presents symbolize; 
it needs to be opened.

You never opened it.  You forgot about it.  You rummage though your mind trying to remember.  You remember the weightlessness of the box.  You remember its ugly wrapping paper.  You remember the bow that was on top. But as strange as it is, you can't remember actually opening and receiving the present.

Why didn't I open it?  What was in it?  Will I get another chance?

You start searching with determination, refusing to become distracted.  This time, you’re gonna open it.  You can’t wait for a chance to shred the paper, destroy the box, and annihilate that red ribbon in order to see what’s inside.  The anticipation sort of makes you feel like a kid again. 

Suddenly, you see the unopened present.  It’s really not much to look at.  No wonder you didn’t take the time to open it before; your focus on the present’s packaging kept you from receiving the present.  All this time, you were focused on the present’s form instead of its function.

Maybe that’s how it is.  When the present is opened and received, maybe Christmas becomes a whole lot bigger, deeper, and more beautiful.  Maybe our faith needs to be more like that of a child opening a present.

 Christmas is this beautiful thing.  And people, for thousands of years, have had their lives completely changed in receiving the present God offers in Jesus – the present of Christmas.  On the flip side, Christmas doesn’t have the same appeal for those who haven’t really received the present.


Maybe this Christmas, we need to rip into the present.  Like kids, maybe we need to know what it's like to receive pure joy.  


And maybe that might look something like this: